A Netflix documentary series chronicles the battle of dozens of families to stop Jonathan Meijer, a compulsive Dutch sperm donor, after discovering his lies. He is alleged to have fathered over 1000 children worldwide.
The fraudster with curly hair
Known as “The Man with 1000 Children,” Jonathan Meijer exploited loopholes in the sperm donation system to become the father of over a thousand children across the globe. He presented himself on Dutch sperm donor websites as a “philanthropist driven by the sole purpose of helping.” Contact with families occurred online. They were struck by his beauty and curly hair. Additionally, the donor agreed to keep in touch with the children after birth, a boon for distressed parents. He met all the criteria except honesty. In reality, this man lied and defrauded to continue his frenetic procreation spree. To appease families, he claimed to have only 5 children, whereas the actual number often exceeded 100.
Dubious and illegal methods
The methods for sperm collection and insemination are not always legal or regulated. The “super donor” employed various means to achieve his goals, from fertility clinics to private contact—everything was acceptable. He offered several services: home delivery, collection at families’ homes, and even natural donations during sexual intercourse. These encounters were manipulated, with him telling single women, “it will stay between us” to convince them. The insemination methods were also precarious. Some women had to perform the procedure in a car or other uncomfortable locations.
Beyond the questionable conception methods, having so many offspring poses a public health risk. In the Netherlands, the law limits sperm donors to 25 children to minimize the risk of incest. But with over 1000 children, how can we ensure none will fall in love with a half-brother or half-sister? The risk increases as these children have their own offspring, raising the chance of incest over time.
Outraged families
In 2023, Dr. Max Curf uncovered Jonathan’s fraud. He discovered that Meijer had donated to over 11 clinics, already producing around 102 children. One mother also uncovered the deception when she learned that two of her coworkers had used the same donor. The nightmare begins for these families as they find out their children have over 1000 siblings worldwide. Additionally, a study organized by one of the fertility clinics (Cyros) indicates he may have around 3000 children. A Facebook group forms among the affected mothers with the sole aim of stopping Jonathan. They enlist Eve Wiley, an American activist specializing in fertility fraud, to end this unhealthy spree.
Sperm donation legislation, a relatively new field, introduces terms and concepts previously rarely addressed. In April 2023, Dutch authorities banned Jonathan Meijer from donating sperm under the threat of a 10,000-euro fine. This decision marks a turning point in sperm donation regulation, aiming to prevent abuses and protect families from fraudsters.
Complex motivations
Jonathan Meijer’s motivations appear complex and troubling. According to parents, he might be addicted to procreation, seeking admiration and adoration through his sperm donations. Narcissistic, Meijer runs a YouTube channel where he shares content not directly intended to educate his children but revealing his desire to maintain a presence and influence in their lives. Acting like a guru, he films his various travels and gives lessons on life and respect for ancestors. He also maintains a list of his children, asserting they are not just numbers to him. This obsession raises questions about his mental state and true intentions, highlighting the potential dangers of such behavior in the delicate field of fertility.
Other mass donors
In addition to Jonathan Meijer, other sperm donors in series pose similar problems worldwide. In Kenya, a fertility clinic offers paid vacations to European donors, revealing the existence of several mass donors. These practices raise questions about the regulation of fertility clinics and sperm donation methods. Men with over 200 children also exist elsewhere in the world, and in Kenya, one even aims to “whiten” Africa, a problematic notion. These cases indicate that the issue is not isolated and require stricter oversight of sperm donor activities.
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